P. Gregory Frey

In-person and remote mediation available

Mediation Experience

Divorce & Family Law (to include over 37 years experience in Hawaii, as a third generation attorney, with [FC-D] divorce [to include same sex marriages], child custody/support/time sharing/visitation in divorce cases, marital estate analysis & division, property division, asset & debt division, and alimony/spousal support analysis).

Related Family Law & Family Court Issues (to include over 37 years experience in Hawaii, as a third generation attorney, with [FC-PA] Paternity [to include child custody/support/time sharing/visitation issues in Paternity cases] and [FC-DA] order for protection/TRO [to include child custody & related orders entered pendente lite in TRO cases]).

Licenses

Licensed to practice law in the State of Hawaii since 1987 (JD4386)

Mediation Training

Conflict Resolution Certificate/Certification, eCornell University 2021

Basic Divorce Mediation Training, Mediation Center of the Pacific (“MCP”)

Advanced Mediation Training, Mediation Center of the Pacific (“MCP”)

Presenter & attendee at various/numerous mediation & ADR & conflict resolution seminars and related continuing legal education (“CLE”) programs, Oahu Family Law Section (“FLS”) & MCP & National Business Institute (“NBI”) & Kapiolani Community College (“KCC”) legal education program (“You & the Law”) & Pacific Law Institute, 1987 – present.

Other Information & Related Experience

President, Hawaii State Bar Association ("HSBA") (2020)

Chairperson, Family Law Section ("FLS") of HSBA (2002)

Super Lawyers Hawaii, Selectee in Divorce (2010 – present) & ADR (various years, 2010 – pres

Volunteer Settlement Master ("VSM"), Family Court of the First Circuit (2004-present)

Volunteer, Kapolei Access to Justice Room/Program ("KAJR")

Member, FLS, Alternative Dispute Resolution, Hawaii Women Lawyers & Animal Law Sections of HSBA

Board Member, Hawaii State Bar Foundation, 2023 – present

Frequent Presenter/Panelist, FLS & MCP & NBI & KCC ( @ various/numerous mediation & ADR & conflict resolution seminars and related CLE programs), 1987 – present

Education

eCornell University

Conflict Resolution Certificate/Certification

2021

Honolulu University

M.A. (Psychology)

2002

Willamette University College of Law

Juris Doctor (J.D.)

1986

Santa Clara University

B.A. (History)

1983

Saint Louis High School

HNL (Honors Graduate)

1979

Work Experience

Divorce & Family Law Attorney & Mediator

Coates Frey & Hackett, AAL LLLC ("CFH")

Senior Attorney

Divorce with Decency, A Mediation Clinic ("DwD")

Senior & Supervising Mediator

2019 - present

Divorce & Family Law Attorney & Mediator

Coates & Frey, AAL LLLC ("C&F")

Litigation Supervisor & Managing

Attorney Divorce with Decency

A Mediation Clinic ("DwD"), Mediator

1996 - 2019

Divorce & Family Law Attorney & Mediator

Law Offices of Bradley A. Coates ("LOBAC")

Litigation Supervisor & Associate Attorney

1990 - 1995

Personal Injury Civil Litigation / General Practice / Divorce & Family Law

Cowan & Frey / Law Offices of Stuart M. Cowan

Associate Attorney

1987 - 1990